Can I say it one more time? Aging is awful. I hate it. Ok, I don’t hate all of it. I just hate the unusual stuff, I.E. menopause. What the heck is this all about? As if having to deal with this our entire life, let’s throw this new wrench into the equation that makes it a thousand times worse. My husband could never handle this in the least! I don’t really know if I am hot or chilly from 1 moment to the next. The chilly flashes are just as are just as excruciating as the hot flashes for me. I spend more time in my automobile just driving around than ever before. That way I can run the a/c as long as I want without bothering anyone. Then when I am done with the hot flash, I can turn the heater up full blast to hot back up. It is a non-stop vicious cycle of body temperatures. But, I can’t live in my car. So, at the house, I now live in the guest room all alone My husband just can’t handle my constant body temperature fluctuation. This way I have a portable electric oil furnace and a window box a/c. I literally go back and forth from heating to a/c all evening long. I am not sure how much more of this I can take right now. I am just hoping once I get through this stage of my life, there is something glorious next. I think I deserve that after all this agony I have been through!